Unhappy in Love? 3 Things You Need to Do to Heal Your Love Life

Whether you a single or in a partnership, if you are unhappy in your love life there are steps you can take to heal. 

When we work on healing ourselves we can shift our experiences in relationships. Doing our own work can lead to a transformation in our current partnership or it may lead to parting ways with greater peace and clarity. We when heal our old patterns we can be open to attracting healthy, secure love. 

Work on changing for yourself and your own future.

If you have been hurt and disappointed in the past, this does not have to define your […]

The 3 Big Lies about Personal Change and How to Break Free in 2020

With the start of a new year (and a new decade to top it off). The push for going out and crushing our goals is at an annual all time high.

To be clear, I am a perpetual optimist and believer in the power to to change. It is literally my job and what I have devoted my life to.

New Years resolutions often make me cringe.
There are 3 key lies if you aren’t careful, will keep you from your best self.

1. Instant and Dramatic Change:

It might be the goal to drop 10 pounds in one month. Which leads to crash diets […]

5 Tips for Surviving the Holidays

December can be a stressful month for so many of us. It is easy to end up over-scheduled, overcommitted and stretched thin. Pressure from  extended family can lead to strained interactions. Our own expectations  of ourselves can case us to take on too much.  Commercialism and consumerism can lead to overspending and financial stress.  Holiday anxiety and depression is real.

Here are 5 tips to help you survive the holiday season with grace. 

1) Know Thyself:

It is important to know what does and does not work for your nature and temperament. Are you more introverted or extraverted? Highly sensitive or non-sensitive? High, […]

What is Depth Psychology and When is it Helpful?

You’ve already been to therapy with limited success.

Perhaps you got what you needed at the time but you are looking for something deeper now.

You can’t quite put your finger on it but you sense the limit of talking about what is going on with someone else.

You have already talked it to death.

Yet you are still stuck.

You have read all the books, done all the things, and yet you still feel stuck.

You know something is missing.

That the work is not getting deep enough.


(If it was you would have the results by now).

You are not afraid of […]

Toxic Positivity

Too much Sugar is Bad for your Health 

Can too much positivity be bad for your Mental Health? 

It is possible to be too positive. 

With all the hype about mindset there can be a push to look for the blessings and positivity to jump to gratitude in all situations.

Yes- to there is nothing wrong with the desire to get to a place of freedom, to feel grateful for the journey and the lessons along the way.

And I am not suggesting we stay stuck wallowing in self-pity and only focusing on how bad things can be.

Yet  allowing ourselves to feel our emotions isn’t […]

Our Babies/Children are Souls with Their Own Journey

They come through us but do not belong to us
They choose us – for all the opportunities for learning and growth

We may have had soul contacts to be family in this life.
It might not be our first lifetime together (although the roles may change).

They Chose us for what we bring as well as the ancestral patterns and lessons.
For positive traits and opportunities but also for the challenges and difficult lessons.

It is still our job to do our best to be the best parents we can.
But we don’t have to be perfect.

Remember this:
Souls aren’t looking for […]

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

I used to be a full-time people pleaser. So many of my decisions were ruled by fears of what others would think, of letting other people down, and of being judged. Unfortunately women who are more sensitive or empathic are more susceptible to falling into the people pleasing trap.

The problem with excessive people pleasing is that no matter how hard we try we can never make everyone happy – that is just a fact. When we live our lives only for others, we leave no room for ourselves. We run into burn out and exhaustion. And we set ourselves up […]

How to Make Boundaries Work for You

Boundaries are our sense of where we end and where others begin. Appropriate boundaries are essential in protecting our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well being. Healthy boundaries keep us safe and comfortable and also allow us to connect with others in meaningful and loving ways. Healthy boundaries protect both ourselves and our relationships with others. A healthy balance in boundaries is the awareness and respect for ourselves in what we can give without feeling depleted. It is the ability to say ‘no’ without feeling manipulated and to respect our own limits without feeling guilty.

Problems with boundaries can begin in […]

3 Tips for Weathering Times of Crisis and Intense Change

“There is nothing permanent except change.” ~ Heraclitus

Change is something we all have to face as a part of being human in this world. 

Change comes in many forms and expressions in our lives. 

It can come slowly and gradually, a long progression of one step after another.

Or it may come on suddenly, hitting us with the force of a tidal wave and thoroughly destroying the way things were in one fell swoop.

There are times when we can do our best to plan and prepare for change. Processing larger life changes can help us to adjust to the natural cycles and rhythms […]

Taking the Leap to Follow Your Passion

One of the areas I am passionate about in my practice is in supporting conscious professionals in taking the leap to leave a soul sucking day job to follow their passion and to pursue work they love.

This leap and all the fears that can come along with it is a process I am intimately familiar with myself; having taken the leap more than once to leave a salaried position to do my own thing.

There was a lot I learned the first time around. I took the leap without much of a plan in place or sense of what I was […]